So, who decided that a female can conquer the world only if she is wearing the right shoes ?! Marilyn Monroe? Beth Middler? An anonymous lover of female nature?
And what if you offer a female the wrong shoes? Maybe you think that she will not put them on and stubbornly walk with her head confidently raised to the next barrier, which she will overcome with pain, however also with the most smug smile? Since that’s what she’s going to do.
A female will concern terms with probably a couple of calluses and slightly bleeding feet, a little mockery, and an enviable amount of wicked positivism like, “Well done for your efforts, however you won’t get far with these shoes.” And what do you imagine – that life constantly offers you tailor-made shoes? Which a woman will achieve success only with the ideal glass slippers? No. And with the wrong shoes she will abide, will conquer, will conquer, will discover, will forgive, will continue. And with the wrong man, and with the wrong task, and with the wrong pals – the same. You might believe that a lady is willing to quit when it is challenging. When her shoes, circumstances, self-belief interfere. You’re wrong.
Is that what Marilyn meant? And Beth too? Provide a woman the right opportunity and she will conquer the world. Connect to her and she will dominate the world. Show her where to go – and she will go. And what if you don’t reveal her the open door? Do you believe that a woman can not go into through a window or a chimney or a terrace? Do you believe she can’t connect on her own, make her own path? Why does she require the right shoes ?! And the incorrect ones work. And absolutely nothing too. Due to the fact that lady is a developer. In the dark she will light a candle, in the swamp she will find out persistence, and with the wrong shoes she will take a trip as long as needed, due to the fact that she knows that they will take her to a far better place.
I challenge you – discover a woman and “provide her the incorrect shoes.” Inform her she can’t. That she is not good enough, that dreams are impressions, that the world is frightening and failure prowls everywhere. Tell her she’s going to have to be a mother. And have a great job. And to pay his taxes, and to have a pension fund. Inform her that she needs to live in the structure in which you live, because that makes it easier for you. Tell her that at 50 she can’t use brief dresses and heels because “it’s not like it used to be.” Likewise tell her that she requires a guy – great, wise, stable, so – she will need to care for kids. Come on, tell her not to hover in the clouds – the reality is harsh and she can’t afford to wait, to travel, to experiment with herself. Likewise tell her that she can be her true self because scenarios do not permit her.
And then view her do whatever she wants with a smile. Because he can, since he wishes to. And because neither the situations, nor you, nor her incorrect shoes will stop her.
Did you realize that shoes do not matter? That is, it doesn’t matter if you provide her a stylish opportunity or prevent her from doing her part – the female will accomplish it, as long as she wishes to. Whether her life is smiling or gloomily putting her through trials every day. Whether you assist her or not. Whether there are wounds from uncomfortable shoes – she will be grateful for them, due to the fact that they will be the process to its full awareness. Whether the shoes are right or incorrect – a woman will always know how to make the most of them.
Offer a female the wrong shoes …
And she will dominate the world once again.